Word of caution to people going on vacations with family members or friends who do not have a program of any kind. By working a program with my top lines mentioned in a previous blog (https://pathtowarren.com/top-line-behaviors/), you become a mirror real quick to those who are drinking every day, eating meal after meal of unhealthy, nutrient deficient food and consuming tons of media both social and the news.
They can see their life. Don’t be surprised if you are not the most loved one in the group. How can someone love another person even if they are family if they are not in love with their current self? When they see someone who is happy, joyous and free from various chains that used to hold them down, they can easily get jealous and want what you have….but are they willing to do the work? They might want to be in shape, have a conscious contact with a Higher Power, not drink consecutively, not have to fill the void of silence with the junk on the news, but are they willing to work on themselves?
However, the positive piece from the trip was that the relationship with my daughter improved so much over the course of this past week. She was clinging by my side the entire time. I was listed in her favorite people as number one.
We talked about so many things together as she asked me questions and I was able to be present, listen to her and share from my experiences. It’s this weird mix of not worrying anymore of fitting in with the other drinkers in order to be present and clear headed for the things that matter today.
